Everyone wants to be the butterfly.
Radiant. Free. Transformed.
But few want to be a caterpillar - slimy, slow, soft thing.
or choose the journey thru dark and disorienting, unknown cocoon.
This poem emerged as I reflected on the quiet, often invisible labor of personal growth. We celebrate transformation, but rarely honor the discomfort and surrender it demands. Like the caterpillar, like Siddhartha — there’s a moment we all must enter the cocoon, unsure if we’ll make it out. And yet, something beautiful waits within.
Here is the poem… let me know what it evokes in you as you reflect on it.
Everyone loves the monarchs And wants to be one But not many admire caterpillars Or choose to be one Metamorphosis is hard. It asks you to leave The comfort you know, To step into the unknown. Buddha did the same — Left behind riches And luxury of a kingdom Loved ones, even his newborn son. Stepping into the forest Wild and unprotected Searching for the answers Finding them all within. When words cause confusion Silence brings clarity Distill the emotional turmoil Still, Steady. Strength.
Trust the process instead of chasing the outcome. Choose to be a caterpillar, is choosing to:
Stay curious, not expert.
Sit in the messiness of not knowing.
Honor the present moment, not rush to transformation.
Trust that inner growth is happening, even if unseen.
What are you choosing today?